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#1 petrushkagoogol

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Posted 08 March 2016 - 12:12 AM

Is mental incompatibility a more important factor in divorce or physical incompatibility or both?

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Posted 08 March 2016 - 03:31 AM

physical icompatibility??? Can you elaborate what you mean by that with an example maybe? Because to me all humans seem to physically compatible



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Posted 08 March 2016 - 04:00 AM

physical icompatibility??? Can you elaborate what you mean by that with an example maybe? Because to me all humans seem to physically compatible


Height, color, weight, musculature and other attributes that affect self esteem.

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Posted 08 March 2016 - 07:50 AM

I still think there are no physical incompatibilities, if you would love her only if she were a head taller it is a mental problem you have (and most likely you wouldn't neither even if she were)



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Posted 08 March 2016 - 05:37 PM

Height, color, weight, musculature and other attributes that affect self esteem.

Self - esteem would fall under the category of mentality.  Never underestimate the value of self - confidence.  One who cannot trust himself/herself, will not be able to trust in others.



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Posted 08 March 2016 - 09:02 PM

Self - esteem would fall under the category of mentality. Never ounderestimate the value of self - confidence. One who cannot trust himself/herself, will not be able to trust in others.


Inferiority complex is the cause of many marriages eg)dark haired man falls for blonde aka Marilyn Monroe effect but also leads to fall out.

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Posted 10 March 2016 - 03:33 AM

You still need to convince me that there is any form if physical incompatibility. This example of the guy falling for the blonde, is only a symptom not a cause if he would be super happy with the current one then he would not fall for the blonde one--> mental