Firstly, very eloquent post, Coberst:) I've been pondering this same idea for quite some time (and so have many renowned philosophers, I think), and I'm glad that you brought it up. I completely agree with your opinion about understanding being a personal paradigm. Imo, each person perceives things in a unique manner. Reality is not absolute. It is subjective and relative to individual perception. That's a good question. Let's say, for example, you are with a group of people and you see a big bear that no one else sees. We will automatically conclude that you are hallucinating. If it was only you and me and one of us sees the bear but not the other, it's impossible to tell who is right. So, it's clear that we always tend to think that it is what the majority thinks, or what is normalized, is what is correct, or is the truth. I think this is true in most cases, excluding the imo theoretical "ultimate truth" that is absolute and timeless. Considering what you previously said about understanding being a personal paradigm, then I think it follows logically to say that understanding deters normalization, and not aid it. Wanting to be normal and to fit in societal norms is instinctive and has evolutionary purposes, that's why factors like peer pressure can have a very large influence. Personally, I think I'm abnormal, I usually see and understand things very differently than others.